The Weasch brand keeps things simple, and you won't need special tools to use them.
2 Pack Car Relay 4 Pin 12V 40 Amp Model No : JD2912-1H-12VDC 40A 14VDC, Car Rela
You will find that the DEC DU1PU 24VDC 16A 250VAC styling matches other relays in the line.
You will find that the model 301-1C-C-R1 U01 12VDC fits well in many control panels.