You will find that the LY2NJ fits snugly into standard sockets without any finicky alignment issues.
Cutler Hammer 9575H2442 Type AA Relay, Open, 440/480V Coil, 1NC
One thing I appreciate is the AC/DC 12V spec, which keeps things simple when matchingWith AC/DC 12V printed clearly, you can plan your build without guessing about compatibility.
I went with PHOENIX because their name usually lines up with dependable relay performance.