A nice touch is that Phoenix Contact relays often pair well with standard sockets, saving you from hunting for special parts.
STAHL 8901/32-196/125/70 TERMINAL SAFETY BARRIER
What stands out about the RS-1M-SH is that you it when reporting issues later.
Hella as a brand makes choosing this relay feel simple, and that is helpful overall.
Whether you are upgrading or replacing, the 2956026 EMG 17-REL/KSR/120-21 feels familiar in the hand.