A nice touch is remote control, so you can keep your project tidy while still having immediate command.
5 Pack Car Relays 12V 40A, 4 Pin Relay Spst Model JD2912-1H-12VDC 40Amp 14VDC
You will find that the Dxgtoza style has clean seams, which makes dusting the panel a bit easier.
You will find that the TE brand is on the casing, and that gives a sense of trust.
What stands out about this relay is the auto-off, which gives you extra peace of mind at night.
You will find that the S90R5ABD1-120 fits the same footprint as many standard units.