You will find that the Square D 8501RS14V20 seems familiar, which cuts down on training time.
12VDC Waterproof Relay 2 PCS 5-Pin SPDT Automotive Relay 40 Amp Bosch Style
What stands out about the relay is the Western Electrics name, a nice touch that signals care.
A nice touch comes from the crisp part numbering, so stocking and reordering DEC is easy.