From the description, the G2RL-14-E 5VDC model seems compatible with my current setup and wiring.
RBM CONTROLS TYPE 70 SOLENOID DIRECT CURRENT SINGLE POLE COIL 36
A nice touch is the smooth spring action inside this unbranded relay, which feels reliable without being too stiff.
What stands out about this relay is the AMERICAN ZETTLER / MCE branding, and that can matter to many.
the brand is Crydom, and that detail makes it easier to trust the build quality.